Of all the applications of feng shui, the one for love is, by far, the most popular. We all seek the perfect relationship and a perfect marriage. While some attain this easily, for others, it seems like a challenge. It is at times like these that one may think of resorting to feng shui for love. Many of you may consider it against your principles to 'resort to different means' to find the perfect one for you. However, involving only certain changes in your own home, room, and mindset, can naturally draw your partner to you.
Using Feng Shui to Attract/Enhance Love
An important requirement as per feng shui, to attract love, is to have a bedroom that is placed in the southwest corner of your house. However, even if that is not possible, there are other things that you can do, that will help you attract the one suitable for you.
A messy space, be it your room or your house, will never welcome positive energy, and will in fact repel it. The movement of energy in a room that is cluttered is very slow, thus, you may be experiencing the delay in finding the right one for you. So clear out everything you don't need; what you haven't used for several years, you will not use ever again. Remove all the dust that has settled in the corners of your room, and allow the flow of energy to return to its normal pace.
Even if you don't have a partner, the space you create is a signal for his/her welcome into your life. Ensure you closet has some empty space for your partner to utilize. This again, is a symbol of the space you are creating to invite the man/woman of your dreams. If you have the room, accommodate a cozy seating for two, as another symbol of attracting your soulmate.
Eliminate the Loneliness
If you are seeking love, eliminate all figurines in your house and room, that are lonely. Single women particularly, should remove all figures, images, and paintings of single women to be able to attract the right relationship. Replace it with pictures of couples, such as birds, or any other animals, or images that symbolize the opposite sex.
Placing an image of the Chinese flower of love called 'peonies' is ideal for those seeking a long-lasting relationship. For those who are married or in a relationship, don't keep singular pictures of you and your partner. Every picture should be together, where you are smiling and are genuinely happy. This keeps your relationship going strong.
Get Rid of Electronics
As much as you can avoid it, eliminate the electronic equipment from your room. This includes your television, and computer. Your bedroom is the place where you and your partner are meant to spend valuable time together, and the presence of such equipment creates a diversion and also causes an imbalance of energies. Also, do not keep any exercise equipment in your room, as it is a symbol of hard work towards seeking or maintaining your relationship.
Clear Out the Obstacles
In order for energies to move smoothly, you should ensure that there are no blockages in pathways in your room. This means, nothing should come in the way of a passage, like a chair or a table, or a bean bag, or any other furniture item. Passages should be obstacle free to allow a free flow of energy. This also means your doors should open completely, without squeaking, or getting hindered by anything behind them, simply because a door opens the path to free-flowing positive energy.
Get Rid of Old Flames
If you have been in a relationship, which did not work out due to any reason, and if you wish to seek a newer, stronger relationship, get rid of all those things that symbolize the old relationship. This includes old gifts, photographs, letters, and any other item that is a memory of your ex. Even if it's his/her clothes, that they may have left behind, get rid of it all.
Lastly, visualize yourself in a strong, healthy, positive, and loving relationship. Place pictures of happy couples in your room. If you are in a relationship, place pictures of the both of you together, as a symbol of the relationship that will eventually manifest into a happy marriage.
There are various stones, and other items that are used to attract and enhance relationships. However, for those purposes it is wiser to consult a professional in the field. Opting for such things without the right guidance can end up doing more harm than good. On the other hand, employing these tips is harmless, and will definitely bring about the much-desired change in your love and married life.